When handling a negotiation with multiple counterparts, it's important to connect with each counterpart to understand their needs and wants. Practice active listening and tactical empathy to make them feel safe enough to reveal themselves. Use negotiation tools like mirroring, labeling fears, and asking calibrated questions. Understand that the first 'no' is not the end of the negotiation, but the beginning. Once a counterpart says, 'That's right!', you've reached a turning point. Identify each counterpart's negotiation style, whether they're an Analyst, an Accommodator, or an Assertive. Prepare for the negotiation by creating a one-sheet list of five key points that summarize your approach.
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