One way to cultivate a more objective view of our successes and failures is by focusing on the process rather than the outcome. This involves acknowledging the effort and hard work put into achieving a goal, regardless of the result. It's also important to understand that failure is a part of the learning process and not a reflection of one's worth or ability. Regular self-reflection can also help in gaining a more objective perspective. This could involve asking oneself questions about what worked, what didn't, and what could be done differently next time.
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