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Developing self-confidence and influence through public speaking involves several steps:
First, understand that it's normal to feel nervous. Even the most accomplished speakers have experienced fear and self-doubt at the beginning of their careers. Use this nervous energy to your advantage, as it can help you stay alert and focused.
Second, practice makes perfect. The more you speak in public, the more comfortable you'll become. Start with small groups and gradually work your way up to larger audiences.
Third, prepare thoroughly. Know your material inside and out. This will boost your confidence and help you deliver a more effective presentation.
Fourth, focus on your audience. Your job as a speaker is to engage your listeners, not to impress them with your knowledge. Make eye contact, use body language effectively, and interact with your audience to keep them engaged.
Lastly, seek feedback and learn from it. Constructive criticism can help you identify areas for improvement and develop your skills further.
Remember, public speaking is a skill that can be learned and improved over time. With practice and perseverance, you can develop the confidence and influence you desire.
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It is also important to remember that even the most eloquent of speakers were often plagued with fear and self-doubt at the start of their speaking careers. Mark Twain himself has said that the first time he stood up to deliver a lecture, his mouth felt as if it were filled with cotton and his heart was racing. Former British Prime Minister Benjamin Disraeli, a noted speaker, said he would rather have led a cavalry charge than faced speaking in parliament for the first time. And, two thousand years ago the immortal Roman orator Cicero wrote that any public speaker worth listening to was afflicted with nervousness.
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